"Remind me not to go to any of YOUR soirées." In today's episode Laura and Corwin tear apart the tropes and stereotypes in the second hal...

We talk a lot about boundaries in the context of partnerships or our metamours (and making sure we have the degree of closeness or lack t...

"I mean, really I just want to scream it from the rooftops that I love these humans - that's my important thing." The Relationship Escala...

We’ve been talking quite a bit about avoiding breakups and fights and misunderstandings lately. Or at least, just sort of touching the ed...

If “communicate, communicate, communicate” is the polyamorous secret handshake, or our motto, or whatever it’s become now - it’s useless ...

"P.S.: I FOUND THE GUY!" I've used this subtitle before, but why be more creative than imitation when Gabriel García Márquez has already ...

I was asked about dating asexual partners in an email after we briefly mentioned in the first episode of season 2 of the podcast that pol...

I wrote a while back about how our partners can support us when we’re having our ‘darker’ emotions. I argued, in that post, that a lot of...

Dr. Liz Powell and Laura discuss Prescriptive, Descriptive, and Sneaky Hierarchies - as well as a bunch of jokes, sight gags, Dr. Liz's N...

Dateline: Thursday Evening, Q4, 2021. Local events have resumed and the community is rejoicing over meeting in public again. It feels lik...

So, I’ve talked about how fighting to win is, generally, fighting to lose - and because of that, there’s a strong corollary to that princ...

"One of those is your boyfriend, one of those is your husband, one is your best friend, and one has been your lover for the last 15 years...

If this year feels like the worst time to be writing about this, well, it kind of is, but I’d like to give the ‘timeless’ or regular, non...

Cultivating chosen family can be one of the best things about polyamory - in my informal, ask all my friends about it, 2020-was-wild-so-n...

The number one truth of 2020 - for all its complications, shelter-in-places, personal struggles for me, national struggles for America (w...

The Ready For Polyamory Podcast Season 2 is coming! The Ready For Polyamory Podcast Season 2 is coming! It's not quite Paul Revere's ride...

The underlying basis of a hierarchical system of relationships is, essentially, a power imbalance in those relationships - the “higher up...

If you’ve been in a local polyamorous community for any length of time, you’ll have noted there are a few concepts that there’s some gene...