Boundaries are for everyone - but the boundaries you set are different with each person or type of person. We don't set the same type of...

Does your communication need a tune-up? Folks often find themselves talking at cross-purposes when they’re talking about relationship...

If you consume enough Internet Relationship Content (or if you came to Earth from another planet and were studying the humans) you might...

Let's talk Couple's Privilege. I came here to answer a question from my TikTok and Instagram about what we can do to mitigate couple's...

If you've been here a while, you know I don't believe in relationships that are just struggle. It's not worth it to stay in something...

There is a certain drive to make polyamory relatable or palatable to the mainstream that makes folks say "yes we're just like monogamous...

Everyone has different landmarks and moments that matter to them in relationships. As I've been conducting a study of polyamorous...

Note: All links in this post are regular old links, I don't make a dime off any of them; all opinions are my own; the gifted books are...

To group chat, or not to group chat? That is the question. ...Shakespeare definitely didn't say that. However, he also didn't have...

Many of us are familiar with the metaphorical image of the "downward spiral" - of things getting worse, rapidly, personally or...

A frequent question that polyamorous educators and content creators get asked is "How do I meet new people?" Slightly less often (and...

I've been watching a lot of tv, and reading a lot of books, with non-monogamous and polyamorous representation in them. Beyond the fact...

"You're like a chestnut," I told my partner. "What?" "You're like a chestnut, you have these prickly burrs of rough edges and big...

Or, Shameless Self-Promotion. If you, or an organization you attend classes at (or have local to you, or buy convention tix from every...

What happens when your step off the relationship escalator isn't as graceful as you want it to be? Sometimes polyamorous people talk...

It's a pretty standard (and occasional pet peeve) question to polyamorous folks who choose to live together - "Where do you all SLEEP?"...

In this post I talked about the ways that lacking scripts for polyamorous breakups can allow for more complex possibilities - but also...

It comes up here occasionally that I have kids. They're both under 10, they're funny and cute, and I love them even when they aren't...

My title will confuse some of you, because NRE (New Relationship Energy) can be very polarizing - some folks love being carried along on...

"It's really just a matter of making sure people really see me, Ebony, and me includes non-binary identity as well as the experience of...