In “The Lathe of Heaven,” Ursula LeGuin said “Love doesn't just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; remade all the...

There are parts of polyamorous literature, and polyamorous “popular culture” that seem to prioritize pain and struggling forward through...

It is a truth universally acknowledged, that once you’ve been polyamorous a while, traditional rom-com plots start to look a little more...

One of the best things about polyamorous relationships is how deeply personalized we can make the relationship experience. When we toss...

Boundaries are the definitions around every interaction we have - with our friends, our families, our partners. Sometimes ours and...

Many of us struggle with a sense of ‘being too much’ for other people, whether it’s an accurate one or not. At some point in our lives we...

It's a polyamorous truth universally acknowledged that NRE is a hell of a drug - and much like other drugs, that means it can be...

One of the most frequent comments polyamorous folks get (and one of the things I suggested you maybe not say to your polyamorous friends)...

Ready For Polyamory: A Pragmatic Guide to Consensual Non-Monogamy is available for pre-order on Amazon, with delivery on October 1, 2021.

Today, we’ve got some words that characterize polyamory - a whole alphabet of them. I hope they remind you of reasons you care to...

I call my network of relationships a polycule. This is a portmanteau of polyamory and molecule, and it’s a word that I find to be cute as...

I love words. (This is perhaps not surprising. I write and talk at you a lot for someone who doesn’t, eh?) That said, labels and I have...

A tweet thread by Remodeled Love (@RemodeledLove) went viral last week. It reads “Dear GenZ Polyamorous Folks, Please stop with the...

In my continuing quiet obsession with the relationship anarchist manifesto, I want to look today at the section called “Love and Respect...

“There is a horrible kind of conceited independence,” says Miss Bingley in Pride and Prejudice, talking of Elizabeth Bennet’s willingness...

Today’s post is titled after a tenet of the Relationship Anarchist manifesto. It’s an idea that I try to have guide all my human...

My podcast baby is a year old!! This week's episode was live in video on facebook live - and that's going to get shared maybe? at some...

You know how all the innovative, beautifully progressive-for-its-time art of 30 years ago is deeply cringey to rewatch now, if also...

June, and Pride, and the “who belongs at Pride and who doesn’t and why” discourse always gives me a big bundle of Feelings, with an...

Jealousy is presented as the mind-killer in polyamory a lot of the time, but it's a presentation of all kinds of other emotions and...