In polyamory in general, independence and autonomy are important. If you’re in a couple that is trying to open up to polyamory for the...

Not all self-discoveries are positive. Sometimes, the things you find about yourself when you’re self-examining that you need to work on....

Today's podcast is Episode 4 with Bella GreenWolf and Seva, talking about jealousy in polyamory and strategies to work through it....

It's been reported everywhere from Wickedlocal to The New York Times, and I don't think I can turn on any form of social media without...

Your family doesn’t need to accept your non-monogamous truth for it to be true. That’s a complete statement. I would mic drop and walk...

On Friday, on the blog, we talked about the positives of having multiple partners - of spreading emotional loads across polycules and of...

Or, more accurately, Triads, Why They're Hard, and Why So Many People Want to Be In Them Anyway. It's a great conversation with one of my...

I was talking with a friend recently and they were having a new benefit of their journey through polyamory. For the first time in a long...

Polyamory is a subsection of the ethical non-monogamy umbrella. This umbrella is anywhere from large to massive, depending whose...

There’s a lot of factors that feed into successful relationship agreements, into feeling free to express yourself, into being...

This post goes the long way round to get where it's going; bear with me, there's a reason for every bit of it. If you haven't noticed,...

So, one of the biggest repeated arguments in Polyamorous communities is whether it’s an orientation, like sexual orientations, or not. I...

If it seems self-evident to you that we need an occasionally humorous, often educational, maybe too nuanced or niche some days source of...

This one gets a worse rep than it deserves for a couple reasons. First, people hear anarchy and think “oh gosh everything will collapse,”...

I didn’t really want to write about COVID-19 the first time, but I felt like it was a very large elephant in my very small room (and let...

As you’ll recall from Part I and Part II, Mary Shelley eloped at 16 with Percy Bysse Shelley, and (rather out of the ordinary) her...

Part I If you recall from last time, Mary Godwin has eloped with Percy Shelley, and become Mary Shelley as soon as his wife dies....

The author of Frankenstein, Mary Shelley, has a sordid personal life - or rather, her eventual husband and master of elopements and...

Medium Size City, Northeastern State, USA - January 16, 2020 - A sight unseen in public in over five years, and unlikely to take place...

(This list is intended to be humorous. If you think it’s a subtweet at you, then rejoice upon this phase in your journey and don’t look...