"Nothing I do ever goes viral, but one of my posts that did pretty well recently said 'I want my polyamory to be less about compersion...

Over on TikTok in March, we had a conversation about "Polyamorous Time" - about the deviation from monogamous norms about enmeshing all...

"I'm relationship style agnostic - I don't think there's one right way to do relationships, but gosh are there a lot of really crappy...

It is an absolute truism in polyamory that communication is everything - and for good reason, none of us are mind readers and only by...

"You have to take the space to take care of yourself and notice if you haven't made space for yourself outside of parenthood in a long...

We've talked a lot on the blog about hierarchies, implied, presumed, explicit, prescriptive and descriptive. The underlying message of...

The polyamorous community at large (this blog included) talks a fair bit about de-escalating relationships and how the option to change...

What is Lap-Sitting Polyamory? Lap-sitting polyamory is the form of polyamory that this blog previously called "kitchen table polyamory...

Many of us, in the course of our polyamorous journeys, will have a metamour who we just don't vibe with - who things sit just a little...

Do you prefer walks on the beach with one partner, and hikes with another? Do you like piña coladas? ...The point of this line of...

I don't love the term "fluid bonding." It's in common enough use that I don't pretend it isn't there or correct a partner to some other...

In doing online education, I've spent a lot of time talking with people about "all those polyamorous words" and whether we need them and...

As many of my writing pieces do, this one germinated from a seed planted in a conversation with Laura. I started my first polyamorous...

As I remind people every year, February 28 is our own polyamorous hallmark holiday: Metamour's Day! Metamour is one of the pieces of...

Despite veto power in relationships being one of the most-often-discussed rules that folks come up with for their early polyam...

Have you heard of the Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord? It's a graphic/worksheet that you can download here, for talking about some of...

Happy Valentine's Day! Thank you all for being part of my life this year. To show my appreciation for this blog and surrounding...

New Relationship Energy (NRE) is a term you hear about a lot in polyamorous circles - and we've talked about it here on the blog before -...

It's Polyamory Week, which is a great time to talk about a new resource available to creatives, organizers, and educators in our polyam...

We talked about Thanksgiving and Christmas back in the fall, but for many polyam people, Valentine’s Day is equally fraught. If you’re...