(This list is intended to be humorous. If you think it’s a subtweet at you, then rejoice upon this phase in your journey and don’t look...

Last time, I promised you, my readers, that I was going to cobble together bits of sex questions people had brought up when I asked for...

A few weeks ago, I opened my inbox(es) to reader questions for a couple days, and there was a theme to a bunch of the responses: talking...

The last time we talked about compersion, we defined it and talked about why it isn’t mandatory. As a reminder, compersion is the...

New Relationship Energy (NRE) is the phenomenon of “the honeymoon phase” of a relationship - the rush of “this is new and wonderful and I...

One Penis Policies: “One Penis Policy,” occasionally called a “One <part> Policy” or changed to “One Vagina Policy” based on the genders...

This isn’t just a polyamory thing. This is a Life Thing. Zero-sum Thinking is the idea that if someone else has something, there’s less...

If we could build a model of my mind (very different from my brain, I’ve seen loads of those), it would be the midieval castle at Haut...

Gentle Readers, I asked for what stereotypes I missed in my First Part , and you all more than delivered. So, here for you, is Part 2 of...

There are a dozen excellent articles out there on how not to be a unicorn hunter; today’s post assumes you’re not, but looks at the...

I had a reader request for a post on how to help a metamour who is gradually becoming a partner be more comfortable with polyamory. While...

As you may have noticed in my last post, my take on the Polyamorous Expert is that they don’t exist. I’m an educator, I’ve been doing...

If you make it out to enough meetups and make a group of poly friends who have other poly friends, you will with time meet all the...

I believe in sleepovers - with partners, that is. I think they’re a super-important marker of increased intimacy in a relationship; a...

There are a lot of varieties of gatekeeping in Ethically Non-Monogamous communities. A lot of them revolve around who is or isn’t...

One of the things I mentioned in my What is the Best Thing About Polyamory entry (and that came up more than once in the comments on...

I have a deeply complicated relationship with all the press (especially tabloid press) polyamory has received lately. It’s a necessary...

The idea of “love languages,” or that some people express love in different ways than others, has in some form or another been around...

Compersion is a word you probably won’t use or hear unless you’re polyamorous, or have a lot of polyamorous friends. I define it in this...

There’s nothing wrong with hierarchy in polyamorous relationships so long as everyone knows it’s there. Hierarchy, or acknowledging that...