Laura Boylea day ago2 minBrain SurgerySo, I don’t know if you might have seen this coming, what with the contents of “Love in the Time of Covid 2: Pandemic Bugaloo”; but my th...
Laura Boyle3 days ago1 minPodcast Episode 8: Relationships With MetamoursToday's Episode is a conversation with Seva on relationships with metamours. You can find it here, or wherever you listen to podcasts. I'...
Laura Boyle4 days ago1 minBlack Lives Still MatterAnd that's still the story. Say their names. All of them. The ones the national media knows. Breonna Taylor. George Floyd. Botham Jean. T...
Laura Boyle6 days ago1 minYou're So Insensitive!Has (have) your partner (s) ever been unbelievably insensitive? Have they ever ignored something they should know bothers you, because i...
Laura BoyleJul 273 minI need to ask my friends for more helpSometimes, it feels like you have months or years of buildup - of resentment, of feelings, of ‘wait, has this become an expectation’? - t...
Laura BoyleJul 251 minPodcast Episode 7: AmbiamoryThis week, we have an episode on ambiamory, the concept of people who can be equally happy with either polyamory or monogamy. The link to...
Laura BoyleJul 241 minWho We WereI saw a quote the other day that knocked me off my feet for a second. It was attributed to Lavitaloca Sawyers, who you should consider fo...
Laura BoyleJul 224 minMono-normative ProgrammingI mention a lot, offhand, in this blog and on the podcast,”monogamy-normative programming,” “new attempts at polyamorous community norms”...
Laura BoyleJul 202 minScene Famous Person Is Assigned Roommate; Throws Fit in Hotel LobbyDespite it being absolutely standard convention practice and Really Good Luck or a matter of waiving getting paid to not get a roommate; ...
Laura BoyleJul 181 minPodcast Episode 6: Polyamory - Married and DatingCorwin and Laura take apart all the ways the 2012 Season 1 Episodes 1-3 of Polyamory: Married and Dating portray polyamory negatively, or...
Laura BoyleJul 172 minThe Most Unexpected Thing About PolyamoryThis is one of those topics where everyone might have a different answer. Because of that, I’m making it a series, and I’m literally invi...
Laura BoyleJul 152 minFind your Flavor of PolyamoryPolyamory is a Choose Your Own Adventure Book The upside of polyamory, as I hope I’ve said on this blog before, and I’ve said in every cl...
Laura BoyleJul 133 minYour Partners Can Handle Emotions When They’re HardWe talked recently about negative, difficult emotions that you will feel your own personal version of at some point in your life. And our...
Laura BoyleJul 111 minPodcast Episode 5: CompersionCompersion is typically defined in the polyamorous community as happiness at the happiness of one's partner with their other partner(s). ...
Laura BoyleJul 103 minAll You Need Isn't LoveAs I’ve said before, we tend to take for granted that love is the core of whether of a relationship lasts. The Beatles song is strong wit...
Laura BoyleJul 82 minIndependence is importantIn polyamory in general, independence and autonomy are important. If you’re in a couple that is trying to open up to polyamory for the fi...
Laura BoyleJul 65 min Sometimes Your Emotions Are HardNot all self-discoveries are positive. Sometimes, the things you find about yourself when you’re self-examining that you need to work on....
Laura BoyleJul 41 minReady for Polyamory Podcast 4: JealousyToday's podcast is Episode 4 with Bella GreenWolf and Seva, talking about jealousy in polyamory and strategies to work through it. (Non-s...
Laura BoyleJul 33 minSomerville, MA Expands Domestic PartnershipIt's been reported everywhere from Wickedlocal to The New York Times, and I don't think I can turn on any form of social media without s...
Laura BoyleJul 13 minYour Family Doesn’t Need To Accept PolyamoryYour family doesn’t need to accept your non-monogamous truth for it to be true. That’s a complete statement. I would mic drop and walk aw...
