So, unlike in the Naughty by Nature song, in polyamorous community and polyam relationships, OPP stands for One Penis Policy. I've talked...

I get a lot of people new to polyamory insisting that they must date together, or meet people together, because it "will be less...

Once upon a time, I was in a relatively new (less than a year) relationship, and it was coming up on our first Christmas together. It was...

"Sometimes a particular adult's involvement ebbs and flows but there isn't the kind of sudden disappearance or 'revolving door' that...

I don't usually do lists, but there are a few things that I encounter over and over again working with people new to polyamory, both...

"Acknowledging compersion isn't denying our jealousy. You can have a lot of different emotional 'foods' on your 'plate' at once." "We...

I'm actually wildly in love with the fact that there are so many terms for the liminal space between kitchen table and parallel...

LISTEN HERE "I really think we could de-escalate the use of de-escalation as a term. Let's talk about transitions and changes maybe...

"The purpose of a pride flag is unification and visibility for the represented group - and the current polyamory flag does neither." "If...

"Solopolyamory flies in the face of this idea that if you love someone you'll want to be with them 24/7. It's just not true. We're here...

I was texting with a good friend of mine last week, and he started describing some of his relationships, and how they weren't precisely...

"In this structure now, I have been able to figure out who I am and what I want. That isn't to say I haven't gone on dates - I've tried...

Today's episode contains frank discussion of sexuality and kink dynamics, listener be aware. "I feel like no one really talks about the...

A telemour, for those of you not familiar with the term, is a partner of your metamour who is not the shared one between you. (If you're...

"Nothing I do ever goes viral, but one of my posts that did pretty well recently said 'I want my polyamory to be less about compersion...

Over on TikTok in March, we had a conversation about "Polyamorous Time" - about the deviation from monogamous norms about enmeshing all...

"I'm relationship style agnostic - I don't think there's one right way to do relationships, but gosh are there a lot of really crappy...

It is an absolute truism in polyamory that communication is everything - and for good reason, none of us are mind readers and only by...

"You have to take the space to take care of yourself and notice if you haven't made space for yourself outside of parenthood in a long...

We've talked a lot on the blog about hierarchies, implied, presumed, explicit, prescriptive and descriptive. The underlying message of...