There are so many measures of compatibility you're trying to suss out on a first date - and just because someone else is also...

So, if you joined my non-monogamy book club, you noticed that I mildly lost it over my enjoyment of Triple Sec by TJ Alexander - and now...

...and other reflections on life as fat polyamorous woman. I have never been a thin person. When I was younger, I was less fat - in the...