On April 28, 2021, Arlington, MA joined its neighbors Somerville and Cambridge in allowing legal recognition of domestic partnership...

One of the questions that people often ask each other early on in potential polyamrous relationships is “how do you do polyamory?” This...

"Externally, I haven't changed much - I'm always going to be a possum in goth makeup - but internally I'm very different than just a few...

Hierarchy is one of the concepts in polyamory that stirs up strong feelings in conversation every time it comes up. There’s a contingent...

One of the tenets of the Relationship Anarchist Manifesto is “Heterosexism is rampant, but don’t let fear lead you.” It is expanded into...

"I just want to note, after giving so many lectures the past few months and being asked a lot about being a 'good poly person' - there...

Attachment theory, broadly speaking, is looking at human success as determined by connection and emotional bond-building. The original...

One of the big questions polyamorous people get, over and over, is “Why bother being in a relationship when you’re sharing your partner?”...

Does it matter? Love is love and all relationships are natural connections between people. But if you mean “is polyamory more natural...

"No, no, no - I really like orgasms. We need to bring those back." To kick off Season 3 of the podcast, Rachael Rose of Hedonish is here...

One of the big upsides of polyamory folks often point out is that you have the option of getting your emotional and relational needs met...

...Not like that, you! Mind out of the gutter a moment, would you? Season 3 of the Ready for Polyamory Podcast is launching next Saturday...

I don’t think it will be fair to call the world we’re in post-pandemic any time soon - but we’re hitting a level of vaccination and...

Often, the advice of this blog includes “go away and think about what you want or need, and then come back and talk to your partner. If...

The word ‘polyamory’ means ‘many loves,’ but just like the Greeks had seven words that translate to the English ‘love,’ there are many...

Seattle, Washington After only a few months dating, a new partner has broken up what appeared to be a happy polycule, taking the person...

I want to give a quick thank-you to everyone who was able to attend my class on Saturday; the group was responsive and wonderful and it...

I have a love/hate relationship with NRE. On the one hand, that cocktail of brain chemicals can be the most delicious experience - a...

Having escaped from the pages of The People You’ll Meet While Polyamorous, an “Are You Also Kinky? I Have More Events For You!” is here...

In a couple forums I’m in online, my preferred middle ground between carefully defined kitchen table polyamory and strictly bounded...