I wrote a while back about how our partners can support us when we’re having our ‘darker’ emotions. I argued, in that post, that a lot of...

So, I’ve talked about how fighting to win is, generally, fighting to lose - and because of that, there’s a strong corollary to that princ...

Have you heard of Apology Languages? Do you know yours? We’ve previously discussed Love Languages, and how those five categories can brea...

No one wins when you fight to win. I shared this post on my personal Facebook page this week, which was attributed to someone named Nicol...

We talk a lot about self-care in polyamory. We talk about it as a necessity; we talk about it in opposition to caring for others or spend...

...I'm not. Today's post brought to you by the generous and anonymous monogamous heart-friend of the blog who we'll call Lily because tha...

So, I don’t know if you might have seen this coming, what with the contents of “Love in the Time of Covid 2: Pandemic Bugaloo”; but my th...

Not all self-discoveries are positive. Sometimes, the things you find about yourself when you’re self-examining that you need to work on....

It's been reported everywhere from Wickedlocal to The New York Times, and I don't think I can turn on any form of social media without s...

If we could build a model of my mind (very different from my brain, I’ve seen loads of those), it would be the midieval castle at Haut Ko...

If you don’t get my extremely dated reference, that man is a character from one of the first police procedurals, the 1950s Dragnet, Joe F...